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Moreah Ragusa is one of North America’s most innovative experts in the area of individual and relationship transformation, uniquely focused on the revealing of personal brilliance.

She is an author, psychotherapist, registered family mediator, and relationship counselor specializing in divorce. Moreah is also a respected corporate coach, popular speaker and seminar leader.

Moreah's Life
When you look back upon your life and examine the toughest experiences you’ve endured, you will see that something magical occurred - turning what was in you from brass into gold! A difficult situation, phase in your life, or circumstance you believed was unbearable wasn’t. Your challenge revealed your resilience.

In fact, it did more than that. It began to reveal where your personal area of brilliance is. When you reflect upon the adversity you overcame, you see that it brought out your ingenuity, strength, wisdom, and courage.

Challenge and adversity reawakens incredible dormant power inside of you, and ignites your soul’s natural ability to identify the area of your unique Personal Brilliance.

I know this to be true because in my life it was the tough stuff that polished away my self doubt, limiting beliefs, and replaced the thought “I can’t” with the experience, “I did it!”

My childhood was turbulent, filled with lies, manipulation, violence and instability. This was just the beginning. I left home to save myself and became pregnant at 16. Another defining moment was when I discovered my husband’s affairs. At age 22 with 3 baby girls I realized that I was tougher than I once believed.

An ugly divorce and an exhausting custody battle that lasted 3 years taught me meaningful lessons about why people do what they do. Then came my second marriage, two more kids; boys this time, and yes another divorce by the age of 27. My second husband was an addict with gambling and drinking problems. I began to learn that people are committed to what need to feel good and not to the people they love.

Consumed by guilt, and living in what felt like hell on earth caused me to have a nervous breakdown, eating disorder, and enough self hatred to destroy a country. These were just “icing on the cake” for my downward spiral. Trust me I know what pain feels like!

My third marriage lasted 14 years and that taught me a lot about the incredible task of blending a family. My husband with no children of his own desperately struggled to find the love and accept my children – so yes yet another divorce was on my horizon.

The early struggles in my life taught me to get clear and find answers and insights elsewhere. I discovered a place within my mind that seemed to know and see things revealing things to me my physical senses couldn’t.

Over the years I developed an incredible ability to read the soul of a person, or a situation; gaining insight that always gets to the truth of a matter.

Getting to the point in a direct and real way literally saves lives. I’ve become a “street smart” and well educated person. Today I use a get real approach with client’s that works to help them reach their brilliance!

Once engaged my clients quickly discover how much I am committed to them. I am committed to you too offering you insights, attitudes, courage and confidence to help you live your best and most authentic Life ever!

Think about Michelangelo, and realize I see you as the David hidden within the marble, and your life, relationships and challenges chiseling away to reveal the real you.

After working with thousands of people I have learned one thing for sure. Nothing satisfies the human soul, restores health, eliminates addictive behaviors, increases happiness, and attracts wealth, like knowing and acting upon your own unique area of Brilliance.

Transforming the world by using their Brilliance is every person’s ultimate destiny.
I am committed to helping humanity discover their Brilliance. I want you to identify and reclaim your Brilliance because I know when you do that you will feel on purpose. You will become more powerful, generous, and joyful giving back to the world around you.

I believe and know that you are an amazingly powerful being with a specific “gift” to give. I am certain that you have an area in which you’re absolutely Brilliant in just waiting to be discovered with my help.

Trust me, you have gone through very specific challenges and relationships which are meant to reveal the dormant power hidden inside of you. I will show you how to unleash your Brilliance. When you work with me, we will chart your history, un-tap the mystery that has held you back to reveal your ultimate destiny. I promise!

 
FAQ Directory
Does divorce = failure?
Why did you write The New Divorce Paradigm?
What is the first step I should take once I have decided to separate or divorce?
At what point do I tell people I am separated or getting a divorce?
How will getting a divorce impact my kids?
What can I do to minimize the cost of getting divorced?
Why is getting a divorce so scary?
Does divorce = failure?
One of the biggest concerns people have is that the end of their marriage is a sign of failure.
I can assure you that this is, in fact, the complete opposite of the truth.
People come together in life to accomplish specific things, and when the "soul" goal has been reached, a natural pulling away from that relationship occurs, readying us for our next challenge and growth opportunity in life.
You must understand that one of life’s fundamental laws is that we are always moving towards greater personal awareness and life achievement.

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Why did Moreah write this book?

Married at the young age of 17 and divorced three times by the age of 29,
Moreah became a divorce veteran. Involved in a shockingly brutal and seemingly unforgivable betrayal, and an abduction of her children, by her first ex-husband, she launched a 14-year painful battle to regain access to and a relationship with her three estranged daughters.

These experiences started Moreah on a compelling journey of marriage and divorce, leading her to a highly successful career in counseling and coaching.
Having helped couples for 12 years to make clear choices about their relationships, Moreah is determined to expose the myths, untruths and debilitating fears that surround divorce.

Mastering her own destiny, and married to one man for over 15 years, Moreah knows how to skillfully navigate you through what will be one of your most life-changing experiences.

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What is the first step I should take once I have decided to separate or divorce?
Communicate your feelings that you wish to separate or divorce to your spouse. Invite them to move through the decision you have come to consciously and caringly. Make a commitment to treat each other the way you would like to be treated throughout the process.

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At what point do I tell people I am separated or getting a divorce?
Once you and your partner have had the opportunity to digest and integrate the impact of this life altering decision. Communicate with one another on whom you would like to share the information with and why.

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How will getting a divorce impact my kids?
That depends on your ability to care and communicate with one another about the divorce process. Remaining open and honest with one another about the emotional confusion you will naturally feel, prevents your children from feeling as though they have to protect either parent or choose sides. Eliminating blame and maintaining respect will impact your children most positively.

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What can I do to minimize the cost of getting divorced?
Educating yourself on your financial situation is the first step towards being able to come to a mutually beneficial financial division. Try to minimize the use of lawyers to negotiate fair settlements.

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Why is getting a divorce so scary?
Divorce can feel scary due to the fear of the unknown. What will my financial future be like? Will I ever find a new mate? Will it wreck my kid’s lives? Will people think of me as a failure? As a married person you have adopted a role and have identified yourself as a spouse. You have learned to cling to another for your sense of self and safety and with a divorce comes the surrendering of an identity which is not you.

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Moreah Ragusa, The Phoenix Coaching and Transformation Corporation @ 1.403.278.3700
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